1. He does not provide me with the emotional support I want. Every time I feel alone/dissatisfied and want him to comfort me he is either not there for me, doesn’t answer the phone or text back, or if I am dissatisfied about something in our relationship he does not try to make it better he just complains/makes excuses and if I want his support b/c I’m stressed about something else he never manages to make me feel better, only makes me feel worse and guilty.
2.He does not satisfy me sexually. We spent the night at a hotel the other night that I paid for just so we could finally have a full night of privacy and a bed. We did have some great sex but a few hours later I was ready to go again and he just laid there falling asleep..He finally started to give me head which I love but immediately stopped and complained that I tasted like the condom we used. I took a shower and came back to bed and he said he had to sleep. I said “seriously?” And he said “yeah” in a very rude tone. When we woke up I was again very horny and we did nothing. He did not even kiss me. He said he had to sit and watch tv to wake up so I kept waiting and waiting and then it was checkout time so we had to leave. This perterbed me vastly.
3. I had a very hard time expressing to him the problem I just described (#2). When I finally did via text he did not text back for hours and when I texted him again he started arguing with me. When I have a hard time expressing myself it is b/c I am afraid of this exact reaction and it is what I got. He never apologized and when I have wanted him to apologize in the past he either did not or did in a rude tone.
4. He does not seem to appreciate anything I do for him/our relationship. The other night I spent every penny of my 200$ on us a vacation night. I bought everything we needed including a bunch of crap specifically for him. He never thanked me or showed any appreciation.
5. He does NOTHING for me. He puts NO EFFORT into pleasing me EVER.
I’m not putting up with this anymore. I’d rather be alone. Fuck this.